Experiencing the joy of a Love Relationship
By Minister Davis
We’re all either in a relationship, getting out of one or looking for one. No matter what the situation may or may not be, everyone is seeking love. Some of us are seeking it in all the wrong places and in all the wrong ways. No matter, we want love. We want to be loved and we want to experience it in ways that will define who we are. Weather we are young or old, rich or poor, we are trying to reach a place in life that will define our happiness, our joy, our place in history, as a man or woman, a family or what ever. We seek love; we seek to be loved, not knowing that;
Love is the foundation and the apex of the pyramid of our existence.
Love is the “affirmative of affirmatives”; it enlarges the vision, expands the heart.
Love is the dynamic motivation behind every worthy purpose; it is the upward thrust that lifts men to the heights beyond their own limited imagination.Love is the creative fire, the inspiration that keeps the torch of progress aflame.Love is down to earth and it reaches to the highest star; it is the valley of humility and the mountaintop of ecstasy.
Love is the perfect antidote that floods the mind to wash away hatred, jealousy, resentment, anxiety and fear.
Love alone can release the power of the atom so it will work for man and not against him.
Love, in the words of the World’s Greatest Lover, is the shining command:
LOVE ONE ANOTHER, and when we learn to love one another without a preset of conditions, we would have then learned how to experience, the joy and pleasure of the totality of the relationship, and how to have a romantic love affair with the joy of life.
Now we can embrace the relationship, knowing that love is King and the flames of fire is filled with great romance and passion is our greatest desire.
Do you use sex as a tool?
By Minister Davis
Are you the type of person that is always taking and never giving? Do you seek sex from your spouse for the pure enjoyment of getting your rocks off, and not being mindful of your spouses need?
Sex is primarily a spiritual act of oneness symbolized with a physical act. For it to be a blessing in marriage, there needs to be emotional and spiritual wholeness, free of domination, manipulation and control from either spouse. Emotional wounding or bondage in either person will damage and distort sexual intimacy. To have a healthy sexuality, you need complete trust, mutual respect and appreciation of each other which leads to oneness of body, soul and spirit. This creates a godly sexual soul tie. An ungodly sexual soul tie occurs when sexuality becomes a tool of control.Yes, there can be an ungodly sexual soul tie even in Christian marriage. There can even be sexual abuse in Christian marriage which gets covered up by insisting on the scriptural submission of women to the will of the male. It is a sin to dominate, manipulate or control a spouse in any way, including sexuality. It shows disrespect and treats the person as an object to meet the emotional needs of the other.Sexuality can be used as a tool of punishment or reward to control the other spouse. When it is used as a way of reassuring yourself of worth or acceptance, it can easily become an addiction that drives you for more. A very simple test of sexuality is to ask yourself this question, “during sex are you lovingly giving yourself to your spouse or taking what you believe to be rightfully yours?” If you are taking then you are on dangerous ground! In my observation, most sexual problems are emotional and spiritual, not physical. The solution is the healing of our wounds. We need to learn to love unconditionally. When we can detach ourselves from believing that we have total control of our spouses’ body, mind and soul and learn to trust and give them the love and respect they deserve, then we are on our way to learning the greatest lesson of all. “The art of a lover is to make the love last as long as possible.” Capture the spirit of this sentence and you capture the meaning of learning how to love unconditionally. In any relationship this is the greatest challenge of all. But it is one that we must learn to embrace and understand if we are to have a complete loving and romantic life together as one.
